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Thursday, October 25, 2012

What are symbols of inseparable marriage in your country?

Betel Leaves and Areca Nuts

Betel leaves and areca nuts are important symbols of love and marriage in Vietnam. The phrase "matters of betel and areca" synonymously indicates marriages. One day before the wedding day, the groom’s family consisting of senior representatives in the extended clan visits the bride’s home with a gift of betel nuts, Phu The cakes and even money to officially ask permission to receive the bride. The two families talk and confirm the wedding and other proceedings will soon take place.

The practice of chewing areca nuts and betel leaves starts the discussion about the preparations. Though this rarely exists anymore in modern receptions in cities, areca and betel still have ceremonial meanings during such an important day. The offering of areca nuts and betel leaves is originated from the folk tale which illustrates the belief that love is forever and marriage is inseparable, which both families want for the couple.

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